Together Again

After almost six months of waiting we finally were able to be with Tanya again today. It was really good to see her and to give her a big hug. In contrast to our last visit when she ran across the room and jumped into my arms today she was more reserved and went straight to Paula. It was obvious to Paula and me that Tanya was a bit nervous about all that is going on. She was certainly happy to be with us again but the reality of leaving is becoming more real to her. I think that one of her biggest concerns is if she will be able to learn English. We also found out that she did not realize that she would be going on an airplane and that she has never been to Moscow before. The trip to Moscow and the airplane did not seem to faze her too much. The longer we were there the more she opened up with us and became more relaxed. I think it will be good for us to be in Ivanovo for a couple days so she can begin the adjustment. Tanya’s teacher sat with her and explained what all would be happening over the next few days. She also told her that if she was having trouble communicating with us that she could just show us what she needed and we would understand.

It also was clear today that Tanya feels the safest with Paula. While we were with her today she kept Paula in sight. If Tanya left the room, when she came back in she would say “Mama” and go and sit next to Paula. I am glad that she feels so comfortable with Paula as I think this will help in the transition. She did come and sit with me to read through the dictionary that we brought her. However, after stopping her a few times and asking her to say the word in English she decided she would rather sit with Paula again. She did say a few words and I think if we take it slow but steady we will get through the language barrier.

Please be praying for Tanya as tomorrow we go to court at 9:00 a.m. Ivanovo time. As soon as we walk out of court she will be ours and come back to the hotel with us. I am sure that this will be a mix of emotions for her as it means the end of her life as she knows it now but the beginning of a whole new one. It truly is a lot for an eight year old to handle. Pray that Paula and I will have wisdom and lots of understanding and patience with her.

While we were at Holuy I did get to see some of the other children. It is always fun to walk in the room and watch their eyes light up as they were not expecting to see us. All of the ones we saw were happy and doing well. Amy, your little Sergey had the usual smile from ear to ear. He was so happy to get your gift and we have some things for you from Sergey. We also found out that another family has been to the orphanage to begin the adoption of Luda (sorry Doug and Kristy). What was so interesting was that we were told that the family knows us. I asked a few more questions and found out that the family is one that lives in Draper (10 minutes from our house) and I had volunteered at The Christmas Box House with the wife. I guess they had seen our picture while they were there and couldn’t believe it either. I am looking forward to getting back and calling them. So for all of you who have fallen in love with Luda just wait and she will be in Salt Lake City soon. We are also going to be able to get the information about the woman adopting Vika since our coordinator is working with her as well. It will be great for the kids to have some of their friends near by.

One other major event of the day is that today is Abbie’s 5th birthday. We did have a chance to call her and wish her a Happy Birthday earlier. It was really good to here the kids voices and here all about what they have been doing. Let me tell you, they have been busy but having a lot of fun. Thanks Allen and Diane for taking such good care of them. Happy Birthday Abbie!!!!!!! We love you!!!!!